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Just following the guidelines won't be enough, I agree with you on that if that was your original intention. I just don't agree that -- Brad Pitt - (285 Byte) 2005-7-08 周五, 06:33 (237 reads) |
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作者：jsj 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
Of course not everyone would agree those are the facts though.
Well, I agree what you said are facts.
The point I have been trying to make is that marrying a white lady has never been a problem, but I would surely not agree if someone wants to say Asian guys are samely or even more competitve in dating or marrying white ladies than white guys in US.
It would make sense if we ask ourselves why a white lady would chose as her date an Asian guy who is more likely different from herself in many aspects but not a white guy who much more likely has the same cultural and social tastes as hers. How likely is it? As a matter of fact, I know that White and Asian are even physiologically different so that their physical attractions are different. We don't need too much scientific background to know this fact. Just look at the sport performance of White and Asian, they are different, aren't they? Tell you another fact, Stanford alone once got more Olympic gold medals than the whole mainland China.
OK, even if White and Asian are exactly the same physically and culturally, Asian are still even not competitive at all. Why? Because Asian are only a very small percentage of population in this country. For every attractive white lady, there could be ten or twenty white guys who want to date her if there is one Asian who want to do so. What is the chance for the Asian? You figure and tell me! I can give you pages and pages of such reasons or facts.
Accepting the race difference and mention specifically the skin color itself doesn't mean any discrimination, but rather is a more fair attitude.
You might have came to US at young age or be born in US so you might have been dating white girls just as any white guys, but I believe you surely know that many more Chinese came to US after they finished college in China. They are different from you, aren't they? You may be very proud of your English proficiencies because you know you are better than most of Chinese guys in that, their Chinese may very likely better than yours though, but English skill is crucial in dating a white girl, isn't it?
Well, nice to discuss with you on this. I wish my English will be as good as yours some day.
作者：jsj 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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