are from 100k to 200k depending on the locations. For both coastal east and west you may need 150K to 200K for 4 people families. I don't know about in 苏州 or 上海。As soon as you have had your house paid for, you shall be fine, because the housing is the most expensive item in your family, followed by children's education. In the midwest $100k is ok.
作为一个女人，学会勤俭持家，和劳工同甘苦，共命运，三顿吃咸菜也要上，您行吗？
吃海生的日子在后面。
