i have an american colleague who told me stories that most of people here would think unbelievable. he is close to 60 and very-well educated. he may be romantic but not playboy type. there were women in 20s and 30s who offer "companionship" while he was in shanghai. the dude is single and while at it, enjoy to the fullest.........he is particularly fond of chinese women's skin and keeps telling me it's so silky.....the bastard! But I don't blame him. the dude is a quite decent guy actually if you really know him... but he is just being a man i guess.