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laozhong
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作者：laozhong 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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i am in U.S.A. now, but will move to Hong Kong soon
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I have been in haiguinet for a long time
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
HK is easy cuz they all go to China for girls making 830000 HK female still single [data from HK government]
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
I am talking about market
N说:
interesting
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
HK, USA, China are three different markets
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i have been to HK before, but i really did not see good ones
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
good ones to get married or else?
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path to marriage
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There are some good ones in Shenzhen
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but i just passed by
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In the past, I have tried in US, but I really felt that was hard to really know girl, just like a bet
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
if u are not very rich, to marry an hk girl may be a good idea
N说:
ah? why?
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
cuz few want to marry them. it is a buyer's market
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i see. But I really do not care too much about girl's wealth, since i can make a lot too
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i want someone who i feel more comfortable
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
if u marry a very pretty mainland china girl, she will get involved with many men better than u if she has not done so in china
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i see
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Above average is good enough, very pretty is not for me
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
ok, u r rich, then u can follow riches' style: marry a decent one from a decent family, mess up with many pretties. simple
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not that rich, compared to many people
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
u r telling me u need an ok+ look with very good personality
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yes, i think so
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want to know some strategies, thanks!
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
then hk girl is a good choice for u cuz they are more traditional then mainland beauties
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sure, maybe i did not meet any right one before
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
i have 5000 female students, maybe less than 10 have ok++ look plus very good personality
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after all, later on, i will move to mainland as the company will move in
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
so u cannot marry hk girls
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
where in mainland china ur company will move to?
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i can, but i will finally move to work in mainland
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i guess either Beijing or Shanghai
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Of course, i can stay in HK by switching job if needed
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
in shanghai, u will be competing with foreigners and talented Chinese [turtles and non-turtles]
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i see
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i think i meet such competition in all places
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like Beijing, Shanghai, Hong Kong,
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
in beijing, u cannot even compete, cuz good ones are in the top-500 families' 后宫
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i really do not want to target on the too high end
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because my job will be very busy
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
u r very wrong!!!
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
competition is everywhere, but market conditions are not the same!!!
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why? 愿闻其详
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
say Chongqing is a buyer's market for men
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nice to know
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
I am old, short, fat and ugly, so I go to where women are best and men are worst, which is Chongqing [the last 7 yrs proved I am sooooo correct!!!]
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Admire you !
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that is why i feel the headache
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
so HK is a buyer's market, but chongqing is even better cuz I do not need a decent wife, I need beauties who can stimulate my blood circulation for my hardened blood vessels
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cool !
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Since i have been to many cities, i feel the girls in HK are not as good as those in Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen, Hangzhou
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on average
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
if u r busy, I doubt u can maintain a wife unless she is very stupid like my British boss' wife from Hunan
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i see, but i am sure i will not be busy forever
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
remember a Taiwan turtle from Stanford talked about high-maintenance girls? the maintenance is not just money, it takes u a lot of time and effort or those rich and idling men would kick in
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agree
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
wang, wenhua, the taiwan turtle
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it seems that i need to go to Chongqing as well
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
I met soooo many successful turtles from Shanghai and Beijing, they all came to CQ for girls
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ok, very likely i will do the same
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
they do not seem very successful in girl hunting, i believe, due to the market conditions there
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
well, they are not very successful in Chongqing either
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wow, bad news
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
my observation is CQ girls are not like Shanghai girls
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ok
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
Shanghai girls will hug you if u pass their 30-second qualification test
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
while CQ girls need to have feeling for u
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glad to know, but many people said Shanghai girls are not good to be with, so...
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
many high-quality BJ/SH turtles did not make them moved but some local turtle in CQ with much lower qualification all live happily in CQ cuz they have the time to make CQ girls FEEL
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
correct, Shanghai girls are too smart
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i see. i am thinking of targeting girls in Shenzhen, or Guangzhou
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close to me
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and easier to know deeply
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
I am jealous of those few local turtles in CQ cuz they are successful with some top girls at my English corners [and more from somewhere else]
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wow, cool !
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so you mean they win because they stay long in CQ ?
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
yes, they have the time to make CQ girl feel while the turtles from elsewhere do not have the time
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totally true
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that is why i decide to come back to work in Asia
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
otherwise, how can u explain why high-profile turtles did not make it, but lower ones made it???
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yes, that is true
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so i will stay in China for long
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
rite direction, US is a hell
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living in US for so many years is like a waste for me
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
that was why my goal was making enough money and going back to China
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including me, many people here either have to get below average wives, or get some from China with big risk
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i cannot wait to get enough money
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
I am much older, so my "enough" is much less than ur "enough" [not proportional cuz u have to deal with much bigger uncertainty]
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
cuz u have 50 yrs to go, but I may only have 15
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yeah, very big uncertainty, but honestly, the pay in HK is higher than what i made in USA
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so i will definitely move back, even today there is a firm here asked me to do interview, i just rejected them right way
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
u r not going to like local Cantonese girls so the girls u will be dealing with in SZ and GZ are still from elsewhere in China. these girls are very ambitious or they would not leave home for SZ/GZ
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sure
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
I guess ur first task is not looking for a wife. It should be "how not to get trapped by the first girl u meet in China?" [they have many ways to trap u into marriage]
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NOT trapped ?
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
泡妞泡成老公
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what i feel very unhappy is that i am not bad at all, but since i came to US, i lost so many opportunities, not only girls, but also money
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
that was why u need a decent wife from HK and sleep with many dream beauties at side
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interesting point
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i have met pretty girls nearly every year during my stay in US
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
Chinese used to "look up" on turtles when we made 300 times more money than them, now they "look flat". one day they will "look down" on us
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met in China
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yes, i agree
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i am not fond of turtle name
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since i really do not feel turtles are better
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
even today, generally, turtles are not on the top of the Chinese society. those on the top are government official and da kuan
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yes
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
this is why the top girls ignore us, including the top girls at my English corners
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yes, cool !
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actually, most turtles are not rich at all
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my brother laughed at my 100K USD salary before
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
I was growing up in beijing and I know Beijing people very well. they created this name for us, but we turtles are very tolerant
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so for now, i am not targetting top girls, since they are not for me
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last time (the most recent one)
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My friend introduced a pretty girl to me
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but according to her expense, i have known that she is not for me
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
定位是痛苦的, 却是必须的
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very luxurious
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
the point is even if u somehow get married with a top-girl, u cannot maintain the relationship [the same as u take a top girl to USA]
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yes, i have got the lesson
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so whenever i feel a girl is not the type i can afford to
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
so the better strategy I think is to marry a decent girl from a decent family, sleep nationwide
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i will give up very soon
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cool !
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
do not even get started with high-maintenance girls unless it is ONS
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yes
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i feel i like those girl looks 清纯
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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but after i met them, i found that i was always kind of cheated
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so many years, i have wasted thousands of $ to fly and give gifts
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and got nothing
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
u have a chance to marry such a girl just like I can recognize those just left home and get them laid [by "laid", I do not make love for yrs]
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one girl even married to my friend after i took her to a party
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i felt very angry at that time
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
quality girls are all calculating
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this time, the girl even took me to see her parents, then after i left, she went to another guy
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i did not see anything better for that guy
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
try to find a naive girl to marry just like my british boss did [My thoughts: can I be happy with a pretty girl w/o brain?]
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i think i can be happy with a pretty girl with no brain
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the quality girl is so much trouble to me
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
u must be wrong
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why ?
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
marriage has many phases, naive girl is good for Phase I only
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then ?
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
I just posted at 98 about 红颜知己", PLS READ
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sure
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
after the honeymoon, if the two cannot communicate at the same levels, my God!!!
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another thing i feel bad is that since i am in US
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so no much experience to handle girls
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
this is why you see worse guys took ur girls [I am one of them cuz I know girls inside out]
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stay long in US, just make thing worse
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so i would like to come back to compete
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it is just worthless to stay longer here
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lower pay, low social status, and lower girl quality
男人教你搞定男人https://blog.sina.com.cn/zhonglao 说:
do not forget u r also less experienced and be prepare to pay ur tuition.
作者：laozhong 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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